What should I do?

Talk to Alejandro yesterday he still wants to come to see me and I dont really know what to say. I know I want to see him really bad, but I dont want him to just come have fun and then leave just like that. I dont know I really liked him when we were going out but I do have a long distance relationship with another guy. I dont want to be unfair to him. I dont know we talk but I dont think its really a relationship yet. Why is a girl life so confusing sometimes, or at least mine is always like this. I like Ale a lot because he is a hottie and the other is a hottie but a nice guy too. Ale is more the guy we have fun with, but I dont want to miss judge him because he could be for real. Girls tell me what to do and guys if you have a real opinion tell me ok. I am a little dramatic, but sometimes I can sleep just thinking about it. I being sleeping really bad b/c I can decide what to do. I know I want to see him and until I do I am not going to find out what I feel for any of them.